Is it okay to tell your girlfriend you need space? Mine is acting weird and telling me he needs space, but he’ll be back, saying 1 to 2 months of space! This is someone I can’t go a day without talking to. If we have issues, I can’t sleep. This is someone I’d do anything for. He said he’s broke and needs to fix his life, but he keeps treating me poorly. We usually talk it out, trying to support his behaviors in any way.
He’s broke, and his life is a mess, but he keeps treating me poorly. I always help him the best way I could, sending gifts and money when needed. I’ve been very nice to him because I love him and feel like I should do anything for him. Now he wants to break up, saying it’s just temporary. I told him I don’t want to break up, and I want to be a part of his life. He called me selfish, saying I only care about myself.
I asked about my feelings, and he still called me selfish. If your girlfriend is ready to stay with you, even if you’re broke and willing to help you control your anger and build with you, do you still need a break from the relationship? I’ve been heartbroken and haven’t had a good night’s rest because of this relationship. I’ve begged him with tears in my eyes not to leave me. I asked if I’m a distraction, and he said yes.
I asked what if he moves on, or what if I move on? If I move on, am I to be blamed? Is space needed in a relationship, even if your girl is ready to build up with you? Do you need to be rude to your girlfriend just because you’re broke, the girl who would be there for you every hour of the day or night?
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