Omo, I’m so angry and confused at the same time. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, and shi shi he hasn’t given me. This isn’t even about entitlement or being materialistic. Anytime I go to see him, I spend N6k on transportation, and he has never offered to pay. I don’t ask, I don’t know how to ask people for things. He has never gifted me, we’ve not even gone out, let alone a proper date. On my birthday, nothing from him. Christmas, shi shi, I no see. Even if it’s not every time, at least at all, my ex treated me better.
I got gifted occasionally without asking, and I did the same because I am so big on treating people how they treat me. Just that the werey was a chronic cheat, nah I couldn’t deal with that drama. He always laments to me whenever he’s low on funds. When he finally gets money, baba won’t tell me anything until he exhausts the funds. That’s when he’ll start telling me he doesn’t know how he spent N300k in one week, that he can’t give an account of it, blah blah blah.
I went to his house yesterday, only for me to see that he has gotten a new TV worth over N500k. I was just angry, but I just lock up. He’ll be forming broke for me, and na lie. Now, Valentine’s Day is coming. I saw a package of N50k. I don’t know if I should get it for him because I might not even get anything from him.