There’s this guy, so we have been dating for over a year now; we met online. He actually DM’d me on Instagram, telling me he wants to send me money to appreciate my beauty, and it was on my birthday last year. So from there, we started talking, and he just started treating me so good. He spends so much on me, and he is always nice and calm towards me. He treats me good, and then eventually, we just started dating, and honestly, we don’t fight much or anything. Everything is so perfect, but one thing I noticed is that he really has this obsession for h00kup. Like, sometimes I check his page, and all the girls that he’s following, they have big butts, and he’s very, very specific, like all of them have big butts and very good bodies. I, myself, have a body like that; I’m slim, but I have shape and a big butt. So I sometimes wonder if that was the only reason he was even attracted to me in the first place, but then again, if he just wanted to have s€x with me, then why would he spend so much and be taking care of me? So we had an incident in the past. One of my friends actually was the one that told me that one of her friends was chatting with him (my boyfriend),
and the friend of hers is actually into h00kup and she has a body like mine as well, very big butt just like all the girls he follows. She said that he even sent her money to come over, and he paid her for nude videos, and he was making sexual compliments to her about her ass and stuff. So that was actually how I found out about the stuff that he does, because at that time he came here to visit me, because we live a bit far from each other (different states). So, I’m actually a virgin, and when he came, I wasn’t ready for anything s€xual, and he promised he just wanted to see me (nothing s€xual involved). So we met and had a date, then I went back home, and the next day I cooked food for him and his friends because I felt bad, him coming all the way and we didn’t even spend the night together, just a date. But what happened recently is I actually finally went over to his place for a few days. I loved him so much I was actually ready to lose my virginity to him because he kept taking care of me and helping me out. Even after we met, he just loved me more. Though when I went to his place, I couldn’t lose my virginity, he only confirmed I was actually a virgin. So when he found out, he was so surprised and happy.
So today, I don’t know why, but I just decided to use a fake account to message him just to be sure, and once I used the account on Snap to add him, he immediately even messaged himself, and just after a few chats (same day o), he invited the fake account girl I was using to come to where he is for h00kup, like so easily. He said he would pay her flight, and I just left his place like a few days ago. So after that, he told me he had left the state back to his original state, but he told the h00kup girl on Snap he was still around. So when that happened, I eventually confronted him, and he told me he is sorry, that he didn’t sleep with her and he didn’t even meet her. So eventually, I just forgave him because he kept telling me how I can’t leave him after all the things he’s done for me, and that he came over and all I gave him was a hug; we didn’t even make love or anything. So he didn’t know I even took the relationship seriously as such. So I forgave him and looked past it for months. Please, what should I do? I noticed hookup girls always comment on his pages, and he really likes hookup like so much. Please, what do I do?
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