So, guys, I don’t know if I’m being biased, but I have seen fetish stuff with my boyfriend, and it made me really scared. He told me he practices all three religions and that he will later go for the one that gives him salvation. I told him, what’s his own definition of salvation? Why will you be going to church and still be using fetish stuff? Even if you want to be spiritually guided, do it in a Christian way. I also believe in having a strong spiritual life, but not by using stuff.
You can fast and pray or pray with coconut, but not do stuff in secret. He is even in a reformed Ogboni fraternity, and when I did my research and confronted him, he said they just help people there. I love him, but at times love isn’t enough. I feel our beliefs are different. I hope I’m not being judgmental if I break up because of this. The relationship is a year. I have communicated with him, but it seems he doesn’t want to take it seriously.
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