My Boyfriend is Causing My Low Self-Esteem

This 7-month relationship was everything I wanted right from the start; love, affection, and care. Financially, my man has been trying for me. But recently, things have not been going smoothly. In fact, we’ve had downs for the last 4 months, but I really love this guy, and I’m someone who wouldn’t cheat on my partner. Instead, I would end things if I am no longer into him. Now what is pissing me off is that my boyfriend doesn’t appreciate me anymore. There is nothing I know how to do in his eyes anymore. Even if we want to go hang out, he would always find a fault in my dressing. Don’t get me wrong, correction with love is different from trying to make me feel less of myself. I know I am a 10, and he doesn’t even dispute that. Tell me why my bf would be telling me things like “babe, your wig looks funny,” then buy me a wig na!! Abi?

This particular day I wore this wig that I made myself (I’m a stylist) out, and he told me that. I felt bad instantly. But I wore it the next day again (intentionally), and because my other wigs, I needed to install them and I didn’t have enough cash or time at the moment. I was all dressed, and he goes, “ohh, this wig why are you wearing it, it’s funny on you don’t you know how you look.” In my mind “N55k bundle hair looks funny lol”. I was even trying to style it better at first, but I just snapped and next thing I removed my entire outfit and told him to go alone since I would be embarrassing him in public. I changed into a loungewear to relax and started watching movies, and he goes, “Can’t I wear this out instead?” Reallyyy with this rough all back on my head. I didn’t go with him oo. I just know as I leave this house, I’m not coming back again and e don end be that. In my mind, I’m already single. ‘Cause na these kind men go push person to go thief or do hookup.

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