Please, how do you get a grown man to tidy himself up always? I am a young lady in my mid-20s, and I have a boyfriend in his early 30s who is always very unkempt. He leaves everything at the very spot where he used it. He eats, and he abandons the plate right there where he ate. He undresses, and the clothes are left where they pool at his feet. Even an ordinary hanger dropped while he was trying to bring out his clothes, that hanger stayed there for hours. I later picked it up and placed it in the wardrobe. I recently just visited him for the first time, and that’s how I observed all of these. And no, I did not clean up after him. I didn’t take out the plates or pick up the clothes. I was irritated by them, but I still left them there. I only picked up the hanger. The guy is a good person but has this one bad habit. Please, how do I get this grown-ass man to be more organized and less carefree and unkempt? I’ll be in the comments. Thank you.
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