I have a boyfriend that I’ve been dating for two years. We both know each other’s family and are planning for marriage next year. He complains way too much, after working on what he complained about the previous day, he will find something else to complain about the following day. I’m not a very calm person, and I sometimes get moody, but I’m not the cheating type. I don’t even have female friends; I’d rather stay indoors or go out alone. He gets angry if I’m moody or if I talk with other guys. I don’t even have the mind to talk to him physically if he does something wrong, it takes me hours to face him to talk about it (I only have the nerves to talk on WhatsApp or IG). He gets angry too if I say no to anything he says. He doesn’t want me to interact with any guys, and he questions me if he sees any new number saved on my phone. He made me stop talking to my male friend that I have known for years (more than five years) even when I don’t get to see him for months or talk with him anyhow because he’s a busy type, he only checks up on me and asks for advice anytime he needs one.
My bf made me cut ties with him. But he wants me to accept his female friend(s), even though we’ve had a lot of issues because some of the girls (they’re not longtime friends). I’ve always worked on whatever thing he complains about, but yet he still cheated while I was away. While I was trying to work on the relationship and myself, he was cheating and still complaining. The girl stayed in his place for as long as she wanted. He apologized to me after the girl broke up with him, and I accepted him back because I love him and I’m scared of starting all over again with another guy. I’m yet to get over what happened, and he’s still complaining. I’m always doing whatever he wants, but I get angry sometimes when I can’t take the complaint for that day/week. He’s a good guy, doesn’t smoke or drink. I don’t do any of that too, I don’t go around following guys/girls. He is my best friend. I’m just so tired, and I don’t know what exactly I can do because I feel I will never be enough for him no matter what I do.
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