I have been dating this guy since 2018 when we were both 16 years old. Everything was great at first, and he was so caring and loving. He even got me disvirgined in 2020. But things started to change in January 2021. He would go to school and not talk to me for weeks and months even though he would post on social media. We broke up multiple times, but always got back together. Last year, he stopped talking to me for months without any reason. And now, he hasn’t replied to my last message since January 30th. My friends say I should cheat on him, but I still love him. I’m heartbroken. I remember when he used to show me love and care even when he was very broke then I did send him money, but Is it because he has money now that he’s acting like this? I’m 22 years old and in my 300l in nursing school.
I feel like I should be in a serious relationship leading to marriage at my age. He keeps repeating the same mistakes of not talking to me whenever he’s in school but when he’s back at home he’ll give me all his attention. I’m thinking of breaking up finally at this point or should I keep mute as well? And anytime I wanted to break up he would always look for a way to manipulate me saying stuff like I didn’t check up on him as well and meanwhile, he was the one that ghosted me. My bf hasn’t called me to even listen to my voice since Jan 12th when he went to school, if I call he’s always on DND, and he won’t bother to call back. I’m sure if he’s back by March that’s when he’ll remember he has one babe at home and he’ll be telling me to come over. My friend keeps telling me he has a girlfriend in school and I’m his babe at home should I give another guy a chance?