Hello Rantz, so I’ve been in a distant relationship for about 3 years. We see each other once or twice a year, and he’s like 20 years older than me. Recently, we have been fighting a lot, and he always accuses me of acting suspiciously, basically implying that I’m seeing someone else. Mind you, he has cheated on me 3 times that I know of, and I forgave him, hoping he would change. I had a new SIM that no one knows about, and I chatted him up with it on WhatsApp, pretending to be a girl from one of the hotels he stays at when he’s around. It wasn’t easy to convince him, but I did. I sent him a fake picture, and he showed admiration. Long story short, we engaged in a lot of sexual conversations and planned how we were gonna have anal sex and threesomes when he comes back. I even asked for money, and he gave me. All this while, we have not spoken over the phone or done a video call for him to confirm if I was real.
At the same time he was engrossed with this fake random girl (which is me), we were fighting and had not spoken for almost a week. I’m just amazed at how he can conveniently have raw sexual conversations with a random girl. I’m just happy I did this myself because now I know how he talks to random girls. This is someone that we had marriage plans with. I’m so disappointed. He even told the fake girl that his relationship is on and off, but they can still build something together. How do I approach him with it, though? Should I tell him it was me using another number, or what? Was I wrong to chat him up with another number? I was just curious.
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