My Boyfriend Doesn’t Treat Me Like A Priority

I am a little bit confused about my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been dating for years now, but he has been out of the country for two years, returning last October, and we have been living together. Now, the problem is that whenever I ask my boyfriend for money, it must be for something important, like my school bills, food, or when I’m not feeling well. Other material things do not interest him. He spoils himself with luxury items and doesn’t consider shopping for me, but I’m not too bothered about it because I can’t afford that kind of lifestyle for now, although I have my own business. Anytime I can’t afford something, I go to him, and sometimes I don’t like the reply I get because I know it’s something I can afford but lack the funds at that moment. His usual response is, “Ah, me, I don’t have money for things like that now.” Most times after that statement, he eventually gives me the money, but it bothers me that he seems used to that excuse, especially when I know he has the means.

I then decided to use my school bills to start collecting money from him because I knew that would be faster. I also noticed that whenever we’re having a conversation about vacations, he never suggests I go with him. Jokingly, I mentioned going with him, and he quickly dismissed it, saying he wouldn’t be going for long. When he was out of the country, he never attempted to invite me over, always using my school as an excuse. Even for simple outings, he claims not to have money but is always available for Snapchat/Instagram girls. I don’t even want to talk about how he cheats. Whenever I confront him about it, he dismisses it, saying I’m stressing myself over nonsense and that he has nothing to do with it. Sometimes he makes me feel less of myself.

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