I’m here to just say my mind so I can feel better a little bit. So I met a guy at school last year and we started dating around December. He’s cool, intelligent and some things sha, but he’s broke. I don’t have a problem with him being broke because I work. I’m a fashion designer and I earn my own money. I’ve never collected anything from him, not even N500, because all my thoughts was he’s broke and he doesn’t have any money to give, so I don’t bother him at all. I do everything, feed him, clothe him, get him stuffs, hoping everything will get better soon. But the problem here is this guy doesn’t care at all, like he keeps malice a lot. We had one issue about him texting different girls on TikTok, he replied me with “GO FOR ANOTHER MAN.” I felt bad like I should go for another man all because I complained about what I wasn’t cool with? He said a lot like I’m not even good as his ex, he has, he did this with his ex. For my information, his ex still visits him and checks on him every day. He said he’d pay me back whatever good I did to him without me in his life.
I was shocked, then I stopped replying him because I was hurt with everything he said. The next day he called me to help him with sub and he hasn’t eaten also, which I did the sub and sent him N5k for breakfast also. After 3 days he did the same thing and said he doesn’t know why I tell him everywhere I’m going, what’s his business with wherever I go? I let it slide and did as if I’m not pained. The next day he called for sub again, which I did as usual. After subbing for him, he did not reply my text on WhatsApp nor call me, so I had to text and complain about him not replying my texts and posting different girls. But his reply was I’m so manipulative and if I see another man that’s giving me peace, I should go. Then I said okay, I’ve heard you. It’s been 5 days now, he didn’t text me and I didn’t either. So there’s this guy that has been disturbing me since, but I don’t like cheating at all. But since this guy has been treating me this way, I just decided to give the other guy a try to check. Ngl this guy is everything, a prayerful man, he has money, knows what to do at the right time.
We’ve been dating for weeks now and he has never said anything about sex to me and I’m confused because this my other guy, morning, afternoon and night he’d call me to come over for sex, which I will. But this guy didn’t say anything about sex. In fact, I’m to resume back to school, but I’m broke at the moment. He told me to let him know what I need so I can resume back to school, and this other guy did not even ask me why haven’t I resumed back to school. All he’s waiting for is for me to resume so I can bring all my food stuffs for him as usual. Now I’m going back to school and I’ll see him. I know he’d want to talk to me and all. I don’t know if I should talk to him or just let him be since I’m now in a new relationship. Please no insult, be nice with your words biko.
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