I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now; he’s nice and all, and he’s not cheating because I go through his phone, but he doesn’t know, and I’m not cheating either. A normal relationship saga comes up, and we would settle, even though most of the time when we have issues, he would want me to pack my stuff and leave (I don’t stay with him full time, but a few of my things are at his place). So just yesterday, I went to visit him, a surprise visit for just a night before I will actually come to stay by the weekend. This morning, he started acting somehow. I asked what was wrong, and he said nothing. Later on, when I entered the room, he called me to come, and the next thing he showed me was a picture of my ex. I was surprised, and then he asked why I was still talking to him, and if I should show him my phone, which I did. Without excitement, he got angry that he saw a chat with my ex on my IG. Rantandtalkz fam, I swear, since this guy traveled out, I told him to stop calling me, and after a lot of insults I gave him, he did. A week or two weeks ago, I had a dream that he died, and his spirit was disturbing me because I cheated on him and it really hurt him, that was why he ended the relationship, and my dreams do come true, and this dream wasn’t just once.
After the whole insult, he actually blocked me on WhatsApp, and I wanted to tell him the dream because it was disturbing me. I sent him a DM on IG; the only thing we said to each other was hi, hi, how are you, that’s all. I haven’t even told him the reason I was texting him because it was somehow, that we haven’t spoken for long and the last time we did, I really insulted him so he would stop texting me, and because my boyfriend doesn’t even want to hear his name, talk more of him calling or chatting me up, and didn’t delete the chat. So right now, my boyfriend doesn’t believe my explanation, he feels I still have feelings for him, and we do keep communicating, and I’ll delete it afterward. He said he doesn’t want the relationship anymore because he knows I am still into my ex, so henceforth we are no longer in a serious relationship. We can be friends if I want, but not a relationship. I broke up with my ex 4 years ago, and my current relationship is 3 years. What do I do? Should I just let it go, or be his friend, or should I apologize and explain more?
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