My boyfriend and I have been together for over three years. Recently, I found out that for the past three months, he had been asking other women to send him naked pictures. He says he never physically cheated, he apologized and blocked the women, but emotionally it feels just as bad. He was having fun conversations with them, whereas our own communication was very bad. The only time we even manage to talk, all he does is complain about work, family, and his health, like I’m his complaint bucket. I also found out he hadn’t been transparent about his finances, which makes me wonder if there are more things he’s not telling me.
It’s not like I even disturb him for money or anything. I do love him, but I don’t know if I can truly move past this. Can a relationship recover from emotional cheating? Has anyone been in a similar situation? How do I know if he’s genuinely changed or just afraid of losing me? Plus, I can’t shake off the feeling that if I hadn’t caught him, it would’ve continued until he saw the women in person and they had sex.
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