I want to share something that’s really been bothering me. Last December, I met this guy, and we started as friends with benefits. Along the line, we both caught feelings, and he asked me out. We officially started dating in January. He has a one-year-old child. He says he and his baby mama aren’t compatible due to their genotype differences and don’t want to risk having another child. They proposed and did an introduction before they knew. They still live together. He always says he wants to take custody of the child, but the court says the baby needs to be old enough. We usually meet in a hotel, or he comes to my hostel. It’s really getting to me because he clears our chats, and doesn’t have my pictures on his phone, not even ours together.
He even clears transaction histories of him sending me money. He said he doesn’t want his baby mama to have evidence that he’s ending things with her because of me. He buys us the same things. He recently bought me hair and the same for her, yet he claims he doesn’t love her. He’s always asking if I’m ready to marry him, yet he doesn’t want to ruin my plans as a student. But whenever we’re together and his baby mama calls, he leaves immediately. I’m confused and tired of complaining. It now looks like I h8te the girl, but she didn’t offend me. She stalks my TikTok page like crazy. I recently wore my guy’s clothes, and he told me not to post it on TikTok so his baby mama wouldn’t see it. I’m really confused and need your advice.
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