I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a while now, and I don’t know where I truly stand anymore. He says sweet things like calling me his “wife” or acting like we have a future together, but when it comes to actions, especially support, it feels one-sided. He’s a broke guy, and I’ve come to accept that. But I also believe that if he had the money, he would probably show up better. Still, the reality is that I’ve been the one spending my own money, taking care of things, and carrying the relationship both emotionally and financially. He’s never really given me anything, not even small gifts or gestures, and sometimes I feel like I’m pouring from an empty cup. He’s not a bad person. He says thoughtful and caring things, and I know he doesn’t have much. But words are no longer enough for me. I want to feel seen, valued, and supported, not just with words but with actions too. There are times I feel alone in this relationship, like I’m waiting for him to change or rise up to be the man I know he could be. But I’m scared I’m holding onto a version of him that might never come. I’m tired and confused. Should I stay and keep being patient, hoping he finds his footing? Or should I let go and stop waiting for someone who might not be ready to love me the way I deserve? I really need honest advice. Please.
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