My story goes like this: a guy recently asked me out. He is good so far. He is not too financially okay, but that’s not my problem. According to him, he has known me for more than five years now, so he decided to ask me out. I said, let me give it a try. So far, he is good. He said he likes me and wants to marry me if needs be. I said, let’s see how it goes. But my problem is this: every one of our conversations is mostly sexual topics. Like, we don’t talk about something like “where do you want to see yourself in the future?” or “what would you want to do?” or “if I start up something for you, what would it be like?”—interactions that have nothing to do with always asking me your weak point.
Always sexual talks. Actually, this is my first time accepting a guy; I mean, first time being in a relationship. I am not sexually active yet, and first time in a relationship. Any time he raises that topic, it always feels cringe to me. Always “what are you wearing right now?” “Can you send me the picture of what you are wearing right now?” I have actually told him that I don’t want to have sex till I am ready or married, and he is okay with it. But the sexual topics every day are not sitting well with me. I just want to hear from you guys if it’s normal in a relationship. Maybe I’m just overthinking. I want to talk to him about it, so I don’t know if it’s proper to talk to him about it. I am 28, and he is 35 years.