I’m in a relationship with my boyfriend, or should I call him fiancé because we have taken the first step. My man loves me so much that he literally does everything I want. If I calculate how much he spends on me in a month, it’s way bigger than all the monthly allowance girls do ask for because I might wake up and decide to invest all my money in my business, which he will be the one taking care of me till my goods arrive, and he will clear it too. LOL. I’m a business lady doing well for myself, so it’s really not about the money. I mean, I support him too. Like before he traveled, I gave him 3 million, which he has given me back. Everyone in the family accepts me. The mum loves me like eheee. I feel safe in their family, but rant family, this is where the problem is. He traveled, and the only option for him to get residency was to get involved with a lady.
He clearly doesn’t hide anything from me. He has been truthful and open with the whole situation. I refused and told him I would move on if such a thing happened. I threatened to leave the next day because I was actually staying in his apartment after he left. He begged and begged and said that we have come a long way that he can’t lose me, bla bla bla, that people will laugh at him, that I should consider his mother too. He called the mum, and she said she would visit me and talk to me. I asked him if the mum, as a lady, actually understands how I feel. Like I don’t understand. I angrily turned off my data. The next morning I woke up to them saying they wanted to come and complete my bride price during Easter. I told him to chill and that I was still thinking about it. He literally does everything for me. He doesn’t hide anything.
But I can’t be here and my man is with another lady there just for papers, and they are saying he is doing it for me. LOL. Omo, I don’t know what to do. Please, I’m not in his life because of money or anything because I have my own thing which I’m very proud of. He now offered to get me anything as long as I stayed and waited for him. The mum has been begging, but each time I want to leave, he will call and say he is coming back to Nigeria, and, I don’t want to ruin someone’s life. He sent me back to school to study nursing, but honestly, all this is not what I’m thinking about. I told him it was still early that we could move on, but he didn’t want to, and the family won’t allow me to rest.
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