I am 30 years of age. I got married 3 years ago, and we have a baby girl. Initially, when I met my husband before marriage, he was everything you’d pray for in a man. He is not rich but okay. He barely makes enough to sustain our family. I support to balance it up. Some months after we got married, I accidentally came across some flirty chats of him and lots of different girls. I confronted him, and he swore he would stop. The whole issue settled, and I also got busy with my business, and we moved on. I tried not to check his phone anymore since then, but recently something pushed me to check his phone again after years, and he still hasn’t stopped.
In fact, it’s not just random girls again; he now has an office wife. I was so pained and angry. I cried a lot. I confronted him again, and he pleaded as usual, but this time something in me had withdrawn from the marriage. No, I am not thinking of divorce, but I am not emotionally/sexually attached to him anymore. I try to care and assist financially the way I used to, but I can’t even bring myself to. We are barely 4 years into this marriage. I don’t know what to do. Please help!
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