Hello Rantz family, I’m 25 years, and I met this guy when I got back home from my NYSC in 2020. We started dating after small talking stage. As a lover girl wey I be, I sharpally fall in love (meanwhile he’s not an intentional man). We were cool for the first 2 months that we stayed in the same city before he got another job offer and started forming busy. But as a full mumu lover girl wey I be, I kept up with the relationship even after several complaints about his nonchalant attitude in the relationship to him. Let’s not forget he’s a cheat. We dated for 4 years (or let me say I stayed in a one-sided relationship for 4 years). I was already thinking of moving on from the relationship before he introduced me to his family after 3 years, and when I found out he has a good family, I decided to continue with him. I stayed in a relationship for more than 4 years without getting a dime or gift from my so-called boyfriend, and what did I get in return? GUESS??? The guy impregnated another lady while we were still dating, and up till now, him and his family have not made mention of anything, and the guy still acts as if we are still dating.
I felt stupid because my friends were telling me to move on from him, that it’s not possible for a guy to love you and be acting like this, but I don too mumu for love and I no answer them. Now look at me, wasted 4 years plus on a man that does not value me. I don learn my lesson now, and this is to let you all know that a man is not busy—if he loves you, he will create time and be intentional with you.
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