Let’s learn to heal before moving on, please. I learned this in a very hard way: if you rush into another relationship just to forget about the one that broke you, you will rush out back. I know it’s a painful journey you wish to fast-track, but please heal first, be fine, be happy. I’m currently going through a very tough heartbreak right now because of this mistake. Fight and deal with your pains. Stop running away, ’cause you’ll meet them head-on eventually, and in the end, we keep hurting ourselves. I know we are all me$$ed up and mentally screwed, we don’t even trust who we claim to love, and even when you meet someone who is truly ready to be true to you, your past experiences keep ringing in your head. Insult me all you want, but I will say the honest truth; this is anonymously written, and I have no reason to lie to you guys. Here is my experience: my relationship of 6 years ended; I left because he hit me. I can’t take it no matter how much I love you, so I left.
I was advised to date someone new so I could forget the pain, which I did. Oh, I wish I never took that advice. My ex came back begging; I won’t lie. And I kept telling him no and made it clear that I couldn’t date him again. He sent family members to beg me, but I was already in love with another person, and I made my intention clear that I couldn’t leave my boyfriend for him. You would think I didn’t block him; I overblocked, over-wound him. It’s always a new number with “hey.” I called him one day myself and begged him to let me be, that I love this new guy, and I was calm, more like peacefully excusing someone from your life without drama. After all the back and forth, my new boyfriend left and said he couldn’t cope with it. Even after begging, he said no, that I should go my way. I guess his past experiences with women made him doubt me or think I would go back to my ex, God forbid. I’m single now and ready to work on myself. I will give myself time to heal and not look for a replacement. I know God will make it happen when the time is right.
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