This advice is just for the ladies: never let a man saying he can easily replace you bother you. In fact, when a man says getting sex is easy while dating him, just dey look am. I want to believe none of you here actually believes a man can’t cheat on you sha? 😂 I hope none of you trust a man blindly like that? 😂 Please always have it at the back of your mind that anybody can cheat on you o.
😂😂 I saw a post one time, and the lady said, “I trust my man, he can’t cheat.” Wo, have very low expectations for men and always make them know and show them that whatever they do doesn’t bother you. If a man says he will leave you for another woman, just tell him, “Na you sabi o.” Walai, don’t show that it bothers you. There is this popular quote that “women shouldn’t love a man.” That’s a fact.
Just find a man you know has sense, doesn’t maltreat you, and let him lead you while still using your brain. No go love man o. No carry savings give man o. If a man never does anything for you, don’t do anything for him either. Don’t chase a man, don’t act desperate for a man, never ask a man “what are we?” Don’t make a man feel like your life revolves around him. Don’t be in a haste to introduce a new man to your family.
Mum especially. If possible, let them just know his name, but make sure the man has actually introduced you to his family too. No carry man for head o. I am tired of all the rants here about women crying because of men. Be making your own money and chopping your man’s money too. Don’t make a man feel like without him, you can’t survive o. Put a man on your shoulder, not your head.
Have crazy standards; do not settle. Again, never let a man feel like you are threatened because he wants to cheat or replace you. Thank you very much. And to wrap it up, if you are having standards as a lady, stop doing flings and situationships with men. 😒😒 Stop having multiple sex partners too. That’s not the standard I’m talking about.
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