I saw all the red flags but I stayed. I’ve been dating my boyfriend since 2020 and I’ve aborted like 3 times in our 5 years relationship. So the 4th pregnancy I had which was last year, I told him I’m not aborting it because I’m scared of losing my womb in case anything goes wrong with the abortion process because it has always been painful. So along the line we decided to leave it and decided that after having the baby this year we will have our wedding and both parties agreed. My boyfriend has been cheating in our relationship but usually begs me and I would forgive him. But since the time I got pregnant, he became a chronic cheat that he had another girlfriend. At first I thought it was just a fling but later I got to know that they are in a serious relationship, that he would leave me at his apartment anytime I came to his place. He would lodge the other girl at a hotel outside and leave me alone at his place. This went on for months till I gave birth this year. I’m 5 months postpartum but he’s still cheating on me with this same girl.
He would leave me and his son at home and sleep outside. Some days he would sleep outside for 2 days. Mind you this girl knows he has a girlfriend and a son. I’ve told him several times to leave me alone and be with the person he loves because obviously he loves this girl, but he keeps on begging me that he will change but still yet he keeps on cheating on me. I’ve changed my mind on the wedding preparations because I can’t keep living like this and I’m going through postpartum depression already but he doesn’t care about me. My mental health is at stake and I’m tired of everything. I’m going to leave with my son soon and go back to my parents’ house. I’ve been seeing the red flags in the relationship but I still stayed, now I’m paying for it. Ladies be stingy with your womb and don’t condone cheating. If he cheats in the relationship, he will surely cheat in marriage.
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