I am a 21-year-old virgin, and relationships don’t work out for me. My first ex nearly took my V, but I later found out he had been in a three-year relationship with someone else, so I had to cut it off. After I found out, he started demanding that I should “settle him with seggz,” which made me block and delete his number. Ever since then, I have been afraid to do anything with anyone. Anytime I have someone in my life, they keep demanding seggz even before they date me. Actually, I am a very beautiful and attractive girl, and people find it hard to believe I don’t have a man in my life. Recently, I met a guy. We have been talking for over a year. He speaks so well and is very good-mannered and composed.
Although we were not in a talking stage because he never said anything about wanting to date me, we just chatted most times or had phone conversations. Fast forward to when he invited me over—I came because I already liked his vibe and everything. We engaged in some conversations, and I had to tell him the truth about me. He didn’t believe it, but I didn’t mind. Now, I’m so angry and pissed because he was literally all clingy and obsessed with me, acting like a sweet gentleman. But after I left, he started acting strange and even ghosted me. Whenever I call, if he hears my voice, he cuts it. I’m so shocked that a man can be all over you one minute and ghost you the next. I don’t really know why all this is happening. What should I do? I’m going crazy thinking about it.
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