We dated for three years before we did our small introduction and went for a court wedding. Fast forward to when I got pregnant—he cared and was always there in the early days. When I got to the late second trimester, he started with, “I’m going out to clear my head.” I didn’t see any big deal, so I let him. Then one night, we were gisting, and all of a sudden, he stood up, rushed inside the bathroom, and dressed up in less than 30 seconds. He said, “I’m going out with my friends.” I knew he didn’t have any close friends because he was always going out with his elder brothers, so I asked, “Which friend?” He said, “You don’t know him,” then further added, “Don’t wait up for me. I might come late.” Before I could reply, he had already shut the door. It was really suspicious, but I didn’t want to assume the worst. He didn’t come home that night.
The next day, I intentionally went to my shop late because I wanted to see when he’d return. Lo and behold, he came back around 10 a.m. While I was eating, I asked where he went, and he said, “Club.” Club? With who? He said, “You don’t know him.” The next thing he said was, “I sent you N100k.” I was like, “But I only asked for N15k.” He was acting really suspicious. Later that night, he slept off. I took his phone—I knew his password, though I don’t always check his phone—but he had acted too suspiciously, so I just had to check. Guess what? My boyfriend brought a girl from another state to ours! Funny enough, she even bears my name. I was furious. I didn’t know what to do. Apparently, they were supposed to spend three days together, but he was sick at the time, so he told the girl to dress up and that he’d drop her at the garage because they couldn’t be together that day.
I later confronted him, and he didn’t deny it. He begged and begged. He even said he couldn’t do anything with her because he was really sick and only showed up because he thought the lady was lying when she said she was around. Ever since then, I’ve not been able to believe whatever he says, and it’s beginning to affect me. Am I overreacting? What should I do, guys? Please don’t insult me.
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