I really need some good advice, please. This has been going on for a while now, and I’m bothered. My girlfriend and I are currently in a long-distance relationship and have been experiencing some issues. I’m a very dialogue person, and I believe that communication is key in long-distance relationships. So, whenever we have issues, I always encourage us to talk about them and resolve them. However, when we have issues, my girlfriend doesn’t always want to talk things out with me. If I call her and start talking calmly about the issues or about how I’m feeling, she starts complaining that she doesn’t want to talk, asks me to leave her alone, and not to ruin her day. She’ll even hang up on me and complain that I call her too much. It’s frustrating because my goal is to resolve the whole issue.
We are both working on her joining me soon, and this situation is giving me sleepless nights. It’s always hard for me to go to bed without settling a grudge, and she knows this, but she prefers to go to bed and then act like nothing happened the next day. She doesn’t seem to care about how the whole situation makes me feel or how I feel when I try to express myself. I’m always there for her and try to make her happy as a partner should. If I try to bring up the topic the next day, she tells me not to ruin her day. She never apologizes if she’s wrong, never! I’m always the one to apologize even when she’s wrong. I don’t understand this anymore. Is this normal to love someone and still act this way? I need genuine advice, please, especially from ladies. Do you all think this is love? I’m in the comment section.
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