This is going to be an extremely long read, and I will be as detailed as possible and ask for the best and most mature advice. I am a 32-year-old lady, currently single. Last night while I slept, I dreamt that a baby was touching my nipples, and in the dream I came. Now the scary part is that before this dream, I felt a presence in my room. I am not the most spiritual person, so I didn’t think much of it. Now here is where it gets interesting. I like s€x; in fact, I enjoy it a lot. But my boyfriend and I broke up two months ago, and I bought a vibrator and dildo because I didn’t want to start having s€x with someone else until I met someone new. I have used them twice since I got them because I don’t want to get addicted. The issue is that my weak point is my boobs, and since I can’t use a vibrator there, I guess my body was craving some nipple suck. Unfortunately, I went to see a friend that gave birth a day before this dream, and her baby held my nipple. You know how babies are. The truth is I felt it, but I removed the baby’s hand, and that was it. I didn’t think of it or anything. When I woke up, I felt cramps, like after coming, that slight cramp you’d feel. So I prayed and rebuked the feeling. I’ve noticed that my relationships don’t last. In fact, even talking stages don’t last.
I always assume it’s the norm because most of my friends are still single. Also, I used to have dreams where I’d have s€x in my dreams, and this usually happened when I didn’t have s€x regularly, and it stopped when my boyfriend and I started dating. Like I said, I enjoy s€x, but I don’t sleep around, because once I start dating someone, I throw away my toys. That’s usually how it happens. I have men on my case. People say I’m beautiful, so it’s not like I don’t have guys toasting me that I can just decide to sleep with, but I don’t want that. So my question is for mature people. Does a spiritual husband exist, or could this be as a result of the fact that I haven’t had real s€x in a while, or what do you guys suggest I do? I’ve obviously prayed. I don’t want this to happen again, but I also can’t go around sleeping. My ex-boyfriend has moved on, so that’s out of it. In fact, a guy I’m in a talking stage with suddenly stopped talking to me for like a week now. I’m just confused. I want to get married next year. Please, I’m not desperate. Do I ignore the dream? Do I get someone to have s€x with? I can get any of my exes; that’s not an issue, but I genuinely don’t want to. I can’t discuss this with any of my friends; that’s why I am here.
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