A few days ago, I was with my boyfriend, and a call came in. It was a girl calling him. When I confronted him about it, he initially denied it but later admitted it. I then asked him about the relationship between him and the girl, and he just told me it’s nothing, that it’s not something I should be worried about. What broke me was that the same way my so-called boyfriend saved my name was almost the same way he saved the girl’s number. After that, I also found more evidence that he’s cheating on me, which he totally denied. I didn’t push further or get violent. I kept my cool and tried to act mature. I noticed so much guilt written all over him through his funny body language. He wasn’t himself throughout that day because of the silent treatment I was giving him, which even made him buy me a little gift. We started getting along like nothing happened,
but the truth is, I’ve been thinking about it a lot, and it’s been messing with my mental health. I love him a lot, and I know he loves me because I always see it in how he treats and respects me. I’m sure of it 💯. This guy is very scared to lose me, but why would he cheat on me? Sometimes, I indirectly ask him if he wants to take a break from the relationship. Each time I bring it up, he gets angry, asking why I would even think of such a thing. I’ve also asked him twice if he needs time to figure out if he’s truly ready for this relationship. His response has always been that he’s ready to be with me, with so much assurance. It’s true what they say: a guy can never date only one woman until he’s ready to settle down. But what bothers me is the fact that he saved the girl’s number almost the same way he saved mine.
Could he be cheating on me with her, or is he cheating on her with me? Funny question, right? Lol. I’m not the type to monitor or check a guy’s phone because I believe any man who wants to stay will stay. Even if I monitor him when I’m with him, what about when I’ve left? Will I follow him around to know what he’s up to? Hell no! So, it’s a total waste of time for me. Please, I need some honest advice from mature minds. What could be the best way to go about this? I don’t want to act out of anger and ruin things for something I’m not yet sure of. Is this enough reason to break up with him? Because I can’t stop thinking about it.
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