There is a girl I have been crushing on since I was young, and she knows. Fast forward to last year, and we started vibing again. Then I decided to try a relationship, even when I promised myself I was not going to get married again because of girls nowadays. My love for this particular girl is not as solid as when we were young, but I decided to try. She lied about being a virgin, well, when we had s£x, I knew she was not, and I never said anything about it. I’m hoping to fall in love later, but I will behave normally. She is in a polytechnic, and she tells me about how guys ask her out, even though she tells me she doesn’t accept them. Sometimes I might just enter her DM and start saying things like, “I know you’re cheating” and all sorts.
Sometimes if her phone gets switched off, I will start thinking she is with another guy because I have lived in the school area before, and I know how these guys pursue freshmen like there’s no tomorrow, and I will start imagining how she is busy having sex with someone else. If she comes online, she will just come up with some excuses. Well, she came to visit a few days ago, and I noticed her private area has become wider than it used to be. My penis is not small, it’s more than average. It used to fit in before, and I would enjoy it, but I didn’t really enjoy the sex that day because it was a little bit wider. Please rant family, does that mean she is cheating? I asked her to spend the weekend at my place, but she doesn’t want to come, even though she is just almost 2 hours away.
I’m already loving her, but we fought again because she said I hurt her with my words. She is done because I don’t trust her. I keep telling her she is cheating, especially because of the change in her private area, but she denies it. Lol, should I just move on with my tough guy attitude or try another relationship? I’m handsome, and I have money. At least my question is, how do I trust a lady or look away, even when I know she is being intimate with other guys? Because people’s girlfriends will be at my place, and they will be keeping an eye on their man. That stuff is scary as heck. Are girls just polygamous in nature, or what’s up?
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