So, you guys, this issue is really making me worried. My boyfriend and I had some issues because I refused to pick his call. The reason was that I was with my friend, who was in a very vulnerable state. She got pregnant just a few months after putting to bed, and according to her, she couldn’t keep the baby. I understood. While trying to go through the process, it got really severe, and she begged me to come stay with her. Nobody knew about this except me, her, and her husband. I wasn’t even supposed to tell my boyfriend, but because of how insecure he always is, I had to text him, explaining that I couldn’t pick his video call because my friend would be very uncomfortable.
I told him I’d call after she was stable. My heart goes out to her baby, who isn’t even up to a year old and still taking breast milk. But all my boyfriend is worried about is the fact that I couldn’t pick his call? This is the same person who has always told me not to compare myself with his friends, even though I sometimes feel he would pick his friends over me in certain situations. I’m still traumatized from the experience of almost losing my friend, and all he’s concerned about is that he was arrested and I didn’t care about what happened to him. Honestly, I feel sorry that he was arrested, but my friend was bleeding really badly and begged me not to leave her side.
Now, he’s saying I messed up for not picking his call. I can’t help but feel scared that this guy won’t care about me if something similar were to happen to me. This is the same man I jokingly asked, “If I were in serious labor and bleeding, and your friend got shot, who would you stay with?” My boyfriend, whom I plan to settle down with, said he’d choose his friend and even went ahead to justify his answer. I have still not fully recovered from the h0rror of what I saw my friend go through, and he’s saying I messed up. I really want to know if I’m at fault here or if he’s just overreacting.
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