Recently, I’ve been complaining to my boyfriend about how I’m always the one texting him first. He used to text me first, but now he’s been giving excuses, like waking up late, and just waiting for me to initiate conversations. Last week, I decided not to text him the entire day because I wanted to see if he would reach out first. I didn’t hear from him until that evening, so I eventually texted him. That’s when he told me that he had lost his dad. I was shocked and deeply sad for him. I ended up telling him I hadn’t been feeling well that day, which was why I hadn’t texted earlier.
But then, he told me he didn’t want to talk to me. I tried calling him, but he declined my calls. Ever since then, he has stopped talking to me entirely. I understand he’s mourning and going through a lot, but he didn’t even allow me to console him. Instead, he’s pushing me away like I did something wrong or caused what happened. To be honest, part of me feels like he’s using this situation as a way to distance himself or even discard me. I don’t know what to do.
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