My apologies, because what I’m going to say is going to be so long. I’ve come to realize that there’s no perfect human in this life, be it man or woman. Those of us men who are always looking for a perfect woman, yet we’re not perfect ourselves—remember, we’re all human, and God knows what He created. I met Irene on a page; her comment got me interested. She writes so well, and I replied to her. I noticed she’s a very private person and really introverted. Her page has nothing; she was using a male identity, but I knew she wasn’t a man, just a lady hiding. To be honest with y’all, I met Irene when I was at my lowest—like, really, really low. We started talking, and I asked her out. She was shocked because it was too early. I don’t know what came over me—I wanted us to date, and then she agreed.
We started dating, and it was a long-distance relationship (LDR). She’s based in Abuja, and I’m based in Lagos. We’re both from Delta State; she’s 27, and I’m 32. This girl is a loner and very clingy. Our first meeting was both beautiful and bitter. We were always having issues. She doesn’t talk much but is always angry. I started getting tired of all her dramas because it was becoming too t0xic for me. All the girls I’ve dated before were always calm, but this girl is very stubborn, sweet, loyal, too nice, clean, and super supportive. She’s too good. I don’t want to list all the things she has done for me, and I’ve never done anything comparable to what she did. No woman has ever done what Irene has done for me while I was at my lowest. But why is she so stubborn?
Why can’t she be like my exes who were calm? I started comparing her with my exes who cheated on me, my exes who wanted to drain me financially and left when I lost many things due to some issues. Irene is just different. She has never asked for a dime. If I want to send her money, she’ll tell me to save it for my future. I got tired of her everyday fights and broke up with her because it was too t0xic for me. I decided to focus on my work alone. Before, she used to beg when I broke up with her (and I liked the way she begged because my exes never begged me), but this time, I said it was over. I blocked her everywhere and focused on work for over a month. The first few weeks, I was happy because there was no drama. I started making some money and talking to other girls on IG.
The truth is, I never felt anything for any of these girls; Irene was just on my mind. I started missing her and her everyday check-ins. She was always there, but not anymore. She doesn’t have friends, and neither do I. I never felt lonely before, but I did. I missed her so much and wanted her back. I said to myself, I need a calm girl, not a stubborn girl. I prayed to God for direction. I realized I met her when I was at my lowest, and she was there; she never left but was super supportive. If I marry her and something happens to me, Irene will never leave me. She’ll be a good wife and a good mother. I unblocked her everywhere, but I realized she had blocked me as well. I called and called but couldn’t reach her. I used my neighbor’s phone to contact her. When she heard my voice, she hung up. I almost died.
I had to call her mum. I have her mum’s contact because we used to talk sometimes, but I haven’t met her due to the distance. Irene got that sweetness from her mum—she speaks so well and is a very smart woman. She said a lot of things because Irene told her what happened between us, both of them are very close. Her mum said “I’m not going to tell you what my daughter told me, if you really love her, I’ll advise you to fix everything yourself, be a man and find out the reason why she’s always fighting with you. Her last breakup was very m£ssy and please if you don’t want her just let her be, she has gone through enough and she’s not ready to date anyone again” She gave me many advises on what to do if I want us to work out and told me she’ll tell Irene to unblock me.
I called Irene the next day, she picked, I was super happy and begged to come see her. She accepted and I flew to Abuja to meet her, damn! She’s just a small pretty weird girl, with happy face, she got this eye bags that turns me on lol, we talked and I asked her what’s really going on and she told me all my b¥llshits, how I’ve lied to her and many other things that she’ll try to tell me but I’m not giving her listening ears that her exes used to gaslight her so she feels like I’m same with them which makes her always angry. Seriously her past relationship was t0xic and it affected her mentally. I asked for forgiveness and tried to fix everything she apologized for hurting me too. She opened up about everything and I did same. My happiness is she accepted me back and we’re ready to fix things together, she’s not perfect,
so am I and I promise whenever there’s any issues, we should always fix it before going to bed. I don’t want to lose an angel. We’ll be 1year by October and can’t wait to put the ring on her finger. Men, if you see a good girl, don’t expect her to be 100% perfect as long she doesn’t cheat, try to find out what’s wrong and help her fix it same thing with women, if you see a good guy too don’t expect him to be 100% perfect. Love is beautiful, I will use style and tell her to check out this page because she’s not following, she’s not really a social media person but I was lucky to meet her on her first comment, isn’t that fate? I love you babe ❤️ I love y’all Rantz Family, you can’t have it all because no one is perfect, comma must dey, God know wetin he create.
I’m happy she’s back and I’ll make sure I take care of her and her family. I’m an orphan and an only child, her family is mine. She loved and took care of me, I’ll reciprocate and always stand by her. I’m proud of the kind of woman that raised her, so intelligent, decent, her mum is a widow who took care of 5kids all alone for 19yrs and they’re all raised with love. I love you Irene. Thanks for coming into my life 🙏
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