I am a lady in a confused state right now, so this is how my story goes. I have these two friends I’ve been working with for some time, and eventually, they both like me and probably want to have a thing with me, but maybe because we haven’t seen each other. I’ll call them Mr A and Mr B. Let’s say I am secretly in love with Mr A, but he is more of the nonchalant type and doesn’t talk or express his feelings that much. Now, Mr B is the opposite of him, and note that these people are friends. So, Mr B asked me out, and let me not lie, I needed someone to talk to because I was really bored and just needed a talking stage or something. My last relationship ended in 2023, and I haven’t been in any relationship since then. We got talking, and I kinda liked him. He is in love with me, and he’s a sweet person who knows how to treat a woman right. Not just that, he’s also okay financially, and I’m not broke either.
At least I earn very well as a 22-year-old girl. Fast forward to when he came to see me, I was happy to see him, and we got intimate, and we spent time together. Later, I found out that I can’t cope with some of his character traits, and I feel like I’m too uptight or reserved to some extent. Now, the problem is that I don’t like him the way I did before he came to see me. I’ve fallen out of love with him entirely, and now I feel like I’m being used or something, but trust me, the guy loves me and could do anything for me. Still, I don’t think we can work out again. The thing is, I’m secretly in love with his friend, Mr A, who hasn’t even asked me out but is also a good person. Now, I feel so bad, and I’ve been having sleepless nights thinking about what to do. Should I break up with him? Even if I do, will his friend still like me?
Because obviously, his friend told him we’re dating, and he might have mentioned that we had sex, which I regret with my life and wish never happened. Now I’m stuck in the middle. I know it won’t be nice, but trust me, I’m not the kind of person that sleeps around. Everyone around me knows me well, and my body count is just two — my ex-boyfriend and this guy — and I regret it deeply. I feel things would’ve been different if I hadn’t slept with him. Now, should I break up with him? Because I like his friend, but he’s yet to ask me out. Please, I need your advice, and assume you’re talking to a friend. Please guys, I’m sorry if I may sound stupid to you all. Thanks, I’ll be in the comments, and I can private chat you too for advice. I just don’t want to make a mistake, please and please.
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