My boyfriend wants us to take our relationship to the next level. We only dated for 8 months, and half of the time he was abroad. When he was away, he doesn’t go without calling multiple times in a day, and we do VC every day both at home and at work. But I’m scared because he has a child of 3 years, and his baby mama is also abroad in a different country. Tho he said I can decide if I want to stay in Nigeria or abroad after the wedding, he has businesses here, so he shuffles between abroad and Nigeria. Please guys, what’s the best option? And also, he’s talking about just engagement. Should I insist on having a civil wedding or just the engagement is fine? Do you think having a civil wedding would prevent them from getting back together even if they want to in the future? I honestly want to leave him and stay out of baby mama drama, tho everything is fine now, but what if drama happens later? All these single guys out there are not serious, or maybe the ones I met. I will be 32 in a month’s time. My bf is 35.
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