I met a guy who has been treating me well, spending money on me, and showing interest. While he hasn’t done anything extravagant, I feel like we’re at the “talking stage.” I don’t want to ask for too much too soon, but I want to test his commitment. The new guy is really sweet, but his English isn’t great, and he has a strong dialect. He means well but sometimes says the wrong thing. I’m torn between him and my current boyfriend. Should I give him a chance despite the communication issues? Meanwhile, my current boyfriend constantly promises to give me money but never does. He claims to spend money on important things, but I see this as stinginess.
I don’t want to repeat this pattern. My current guy isn’t even that good in bed, but he’s tall, good-looking, and not bad overall. The new guy has limited English and a dialect, but he’s a kind person. I’m drawn to him, but I’m unsure if I should choose him over my current boyfriend. Should I give the new guy a chance despite his limited English? Am I wrong to expect more from my current boyfriend? How can I test the new guy’s commitment without asking for too much?