There is this guy I was talking to two years ago, then he ghosted me. According to him, he doesn’t date students, and he thought I was seeing someone, so he walked out. Fast forward to last year, we got talking again, became closer, and I even spent days at his place before going home. But he always kept coming back to pick me up after a two-day interval. I told him to define what we were doing together, but he said he wants us to be friends first because a relationship has to be built on friendship. Now, he acts better than he did before and treats me well. He doesn’t give me much money, but he takes care of me when I’m at his place, helps me, and gives me tips to grow my business. He also advises me when necessary—he’s quite intelligent and interesting to have around. I keep telling him I want us to define things or I will open my options to other guys, but he gets overprotective, saying if I do that, he will stop everything with me.
Since I’m the only one he’s having something with, he questions why I would want to be with others. To be honest, I haven’t seen any sign of another girl in the picture, and I know his ex, who confirmed that they are no longer together. Deep down, I want to move on, and each time I bring it up, he comes to pick me up from my place, and everything goes back to normal. He also said that the reason he’s not ready for a relationship is because he’s not financially stable, and if we date, we might have money issues. As much as I understand, I don’t want to waste my time being loyal to one guy, even if he’s loyal to me. I know men can do and undo. I don’t know what to do. Should I walk out or stay? If I walk out, he comes to beg me. He’s overprotective and doesn’t want me to see anyone else.
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