I met my baby daddy in 2019. He started talking about marriage two months into our relationship, so I was curious because I noticed he was rushing things. He also said I should get pregnant, but I refused, not knowing he had another plan. He opened the condom tip, so I got pregnant without knowing. I found out after my first missed period. When I told him, he smiled and said, “Mission accomplished.” I hate him for that. We chose a date for introduction, but we couldn’t because I fell sick and spent two months in the hospital. Long story short, we did not do anything because I was in and out of the hospital until I gave birth. After delivery, I told him it was time to do the needful, but he started misbehaving, saying he’s my husband now because I’ve given birth for him. Five months after delivery, I found out I was pregnant again. That was when he started cheating on me with his staff. I’ve caught him sleeping with two of his staff in his office. He apologized but never stopped cheating.
I had anxiety because I was thinking too much then, but I’m fine now. He always in$ults me and my children, even my family too. There was a day he said he regretted knowing me, that I was bad luck and I was wrecking his business, and that I should leave his house with my kids. He always body-shames me. When I was size 8, he cheated on me with his size 12 staff. Now that I’m size 12, he cheated on me with a size 8 staff. I don’t love him anymore. I don’t even get angry if I catch him cheating again because I’m tired. I’m always treating infections. If I ask him for money, he will not give it to me. He stopped me from working too. This is not the life I wanted for myself. I want peace of mind and happiness. I want to pick up my pieces and move on with my kids, but I’m afraid because where will I start from with no source of income? I know we will survive. I don’t want to d!€ young. Should I leave and stay in the same area because of my children’s school, or relocate to another place?
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