I have been married for 4 years now, and I have 2 kids, but I’m tired of this marriage. My husband cheats like his life depends on it. Not only that, he also doesn’t take care of me or give me money, but this man spends on his side chick. Last year, there was this girl I met on IG. She stays in PH. So they got talking, and the girl complained that she needed to do something, and it would cost her N300k, and she needed N200k. The girl didn’t complain finish, my husband sent her the money the next day. But if this man comes to the house, he will complain and claim he doesn’t have money. If I ask him for N5k, he gives me N2k. So the girl told my husband that she would like to come over to Lagos to see him. My husband pays for this girl’s flight tickets to and from PH,
which cost over N400k+, and lied to me he traveled for a burial, yet still lodged in one of the expensive hotels around here to stay with the girl. When I found out, I was broken. The highest money this man has given me since we got married is N50k, and that was on my birthday. Earlier this year, I asked my husband to give me N150k to get myself busy because I make wigs, so I needed to get myself tools for working. This man told me he didn’t have one. But that same week, he gave another girl he newly met N150k because she asked him. Did I even say the one he gave another girl N100k to add and buy a phone? This man sends women money a lot, N20k, 50k, etc. But if I ask them, na fight! I’m really tired. If we have a small issue, he stops eating my food and even stops providing for it. I really want to go, but I can’t leave my children.
Even if I take them, am not financially buoyant to take care of them. And secondly, we didn’t wed in court, so traditionally, the children will be with him. I’m tired. I cry every day. What should I do, please? I am 25, very young-looking and beautiful, finer than all the side chick, very respectful and hardworking and prayerful. I don’t know what I did. I just want to leave to build and develop myself because I’m so hardworking, and marriage will always pin one down. But I feel for my kids. I can’t abandon them, and I can’t take them along. Please, what do I do?
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