I have been battling with the fear of penetration during sexual intercourse because I think losing your virginity is really painful, and I heard some ladies do have tears for the first time down there. I’m still a virgin, and this has affected my relationship of 3 years. I don’t know what to do anymore, honestly. People keep asking me if I was sexually molested when I was little, but the answer is no! I’m just scared of the pain, and I don’t want to have tears too. Please, I need your advice. I’ll be in the comment section.