I am desperately in need of advice, and I sincerely need honest advice. Thanks. I’m a 27-year-old lady (but I look 24 though) who is confused about losing her virginity. I have never really had good relationships, which is why I’ve kept it this long. I just concluded that I was going to give it to my husband. I was engaged to be married this year, but I called it off because he was a chronic cheat, and our communication and goals were not aligning. He only wanted to rush the marriage because I was a virgin. I have had guys come into my life and act very good and nice, all because they wanted to disvirgin me.
From my friends’ experiences, I know that after sex, the relationship might just end. I know sex doesn’t keep a relationship, and I am scared of what will happen if I lose it to someone who won’t value it. I have lost a lot of meaningful relationships because I don’t want to have sex. And lately, I’ve just been thinking—what if I finally get married, give it to my husband, and he still cheats on me? I’m big on being faithful to one man, and I want to do the same in marriage. Lately, I have been thinking, should I just give it out or keep holding on to it? It’s almost as if all men cheat, and I will really break down if my husband is not faithful.
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