I’m typing this with grief in my heart. I dated my ex for 4 years. He wanted us to settle down, but my mum was strictly against it. Then he moved on and got engaged with another girl. I cried and cried; there was nothing I could do because I really loved him. Then, after a while, I met this guy. We started dating, he loves me, and I love him too. Now my ex came back, keeps disturbing me, and says he wants us back. He says he will marry me as a second wife, which I rejected. He keeps saying that my new boyfriend cannot marry me, and we cannot end up together. So, I went to pray about it because I don’t want to make a mistake. The cleric told me we cannot end up together either.
This guy loves me, he cares for me, and makes me happy. We’ve never had sex before, and he is not even bothered about my past. Now I’m scared. I don’t want me and my new boyfriend to break up. This Alfa is saying we are not going to end up together. I’m very scared and having sleepless nights. I can’t even speak to anybody, including my mum, because she believes in those pastors and Alfa so much. I’m very, very scared. I don’t want to leave him, and I don’t want him to leave me too. I don’t know what to do. I’m confused and scared. Is it true he is going to leave me?