There’s this guy I am dating. The guy loves me. We have been dating since 2021, but the guy lacks the spirit of hustle. He is so okay with little or nothing at all he gets. I really tried my best to talk to him to try and put more effort, but he felt so relaxed. He has no space of his own. He still stays in the neighborhood he was born into, which is his father’s house where his family stays. Now he is proposing marriage, and yet nothing has changed about him. It is now he wants to start hustling hard. Any time he brings up the topic of him bringing his family, I get really scared and totally discourage him from doing it. I tried another relationship with another guy; it was just barely 4 months. With this guy, he has ego and pride, that to apologize is a big flex to him. Instead, he tries to turn the table around and make me want to apologize instead. But he loves me too. Now I am thinking of leaving both of them. I do not know how to, or what to do. I am a nail tech and I got my space too. I am scared and confused. I will be at the comment section.
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