Hello, my brothers and sisters. Please advise your junior sister. I’m 21 years old and just graduated from Offa Poly. There’s this guy I met around June this year; he is an indigene of Offa, he is Christian, and I’m Muslim. I have one female friend who is my coursemate. She is wayward, but I always cover for her and don’t allow people to talk rubb!sh about her. My boyfriend got to know that I’m friends with her, and he said he didn’t like that girl because of what he heard about her. I tried to explain to him that we’re not the same and that he should trust me, but he always used that against me, saying he didn’t trust me at all for being friends with this person. So, we always had a lot of misunderstandings, which later led to our breakup last month. I have stopped being friends with that girl, but he didn’t accept my apology anymore because he didn’t trust me.
I have used so many numbers to text and beg him, opened different accounts, but he always ended up blocking them. Yesterday, I told my childhood friend to text him for me. She did, and he dropped a voice note for her. In that voice note, he said, “Nah, Ogun go kee me if I continue disturbing him.” I have tried so much to make this thing work. I have not been myself since then, and I just discovered that I’m pregnant for him. He doesn’t want to hear anything about it. I told his brother about it, but he always lies that he will talk to him and then borrows money from me, using that as an excuse. Please help me out. What can I do? I love this guy so much. Please give me advice on what to do.
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