Hi guys, I just want to say firstly that I’m stoopid. Been single and unfortunate with my love life. Even after swearing off Yahoo boys and smokers, this guy came around as one, but he sounded different. He said the right things and all. He’s had my number for a while; I never noticed him until we started chatting recently. He said we should see, and I told him outdoor. He agreed. I paid my transport fare and all to show him I wasn’t that type of girl, in case. Though he offered at the end of the day. He asked me my interests, likes, and blah blah. I wasn’t talking to anyone, so I gave him my full attention and just wanted to try it out since I’ve been single for a while. Funny enough, he knows my elder brother, so I thought this one won’t misbehave, though my brother wasn’t made aware of it. Tell me why we started dating and this guy is always forming too busy. I’ll complain, he’ll say it’s because he’s busy, blah blah, call and beg. Mind you, the only time I asked him for money for my nails and lash, this guy stopped chatting with me for a while, only for him to randomly call me one day and ask where I was.
I told him I went to make it and he sent it. Okay, well I’m trying to make this short, but I need advice, so I need you to understand where I’m coming from. Fast forward, I went to his house. We had s€x and all. He went out, and I snooped around—saw he has herpes medicine. I nearly fainted, but I kept calm. I was like, let me go home first and do a test before he tries to manipulate me. Long story short, I was always complaining, and he’d say he doesn’t like disrespect. All these short boys ehn. My Rantz people, I legit sent a long epistle and told him I don’t want to do again. Just for me to find out last week I am pregnant. Like a relationship of February to early April. I can’t even cry because I dreamt of something like this since way early in the relationship. I just thought since I take medicine and I’m always warning him during the act to stop finishing in me, and he’ll say he wants a child, he’s not a small boy. And I’ll respond by telling him me, I don’t. Well, I found out Wednesday. Couldn’t tell him because I’m ashamed. What if he uses it to mock me or worse—my brother?
And you know Idoma boys can’t help in giving money. I’m all alone and scared asf. Took the pi||$ already. I hope there’s no repercussion. And also, I seriously want to insult this boy, because why?! After breaking up with him, I had to do a herpes test—N15k—without knowing that’s not even my problem. So now I need advice on 2 things: should I insult him on account of the pregnancy and herpes? He doesn’t know of the two and probably never will. He’s just enjoying life while I’m suffering. I am currently writing exams. So sorry this is long. I’m 23. He is 27.
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