I’m 21 years old, and I am pregnant for my boyfriend, who is 26 years old, and a final year student. When I found out I was pregnant, I told him immediately, and he suggested that I keep it. But the fear of my parents made me say no because I didn’t know how to face my dad, as he’s very strict when it comes to pregnancy before marriage. Out of fear, I suggested abortion to him, which he declined at first but later agreed to. He sent money but a month later, I was starting to have a second thoughts, so I used the money for my project. I didn’t even know what to do, and when he asked me about it, I told him I had done it already, and he didn’t even mention anything.
This January, I just had to tell him because my mom found out about the way I do things and told me to tell the guy to do the necessary things. But when I told him, he broke up with me. However, when he heard that I ran away from home when I couldn’t face my parents, he told me to come back and face them, but fear won’t let me. So, he reported it at his place of work, and they said he could take responsibility for the child, but I couldn’t force anything on him. They agreed after running scans on me to be sure that the baby was his.
He said he didn’t want me because I suggested ab*rtion when he told me to keep it, and he couldn’t introduce me to his mum because he doesn’t want anything to do with me except for the baby. I’m 19 weeks already, and my parents are pressuring me to get his family to come, but he keeps saying no. I know I’m at fault for suggesting abortion at first, but I’m confused about everything else. I need advice on everything. What do you think I should do?
I apologized and even tried talking to him, but he won’t listen. I don’t want to be a single mother. I’m the firstborn of my parents and I have four siblings. I asked for his mum’s number from his cousin, but she said she can’t give me. I’m confused. I’ll be in the comments section.
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