I’m a 24-year-old female. I’ve been dating my boyfriend (29) since 2021, and financially, he is okay. He has been talking about marriage since early last year. The first time he brought up the topic, I told him I was a fresh graduate and I needed to get my life together to a point where at least I should be able to spend money out of my pocket without asking him or anyone. He had issues with that, so we didn’t talk for like five months, but we started talking again, and he accepted giving me time until I was ready. He wasn’t going to pressure me, blah blah blah.
Fast forward to February this year, I got pregnant. He said we should keep it and get married, but I didn’t want that. I wasn’t ready, so I aborted it. I felt very bad and apologized for two straight months. I called and texted him every day, but he didn’t pick up my calls or reply to my texts, so I stopped. He texted yesterday that he wanted to see me. He loves me and wants us to put the past behind us, but I’m confused. I don’t know if I want to continue this relationship or not. I was sad the whole time we didn’t talk at all, but I’m scared to continue the relationship. Please, people, I need your advice.
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