I have been dating this guy for a while now. I broke up with him for some time due to valid reasons at the time (I’m not going into details because that’s not why I’m here now). We recently got back together after he begged me for a second chance, promising to do better. I didn’t fully believe him, but I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt to see if he would change for real. My problem is, this guy doesn’t like going out. I’m always going to see him at home. I’m not someone who goes out all the time, but I think it’s necessary sometimes, and I enjoy going out with someone I’m dating. There are lots of fun dates that don’t require spending a lot of money (if that’s what he’s worried about).
But I’m starting to think he just doesn’t want to be seen with me. For context, I’m a beautiful girl, and I’m quite intelligent, so it’s not like he’d be ashamed of me. Also, he’s building a house but doesn’t talk to me about it. His female neighbor knows more about the project than I do. All I know is that he’s building a house. I’m thinking of introducing him to my parents, but I’m scared I’m not important to him. I’ve never introduced anyone to my parents because I have this principle that I’ll only introduce my future husband to them. I don’t want them to start counting different men in my name. So, is there a conversation I can have with him to clear my doubts and make me understand where I stand?
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