Ok, this might be a long read, but I’ll summarize. So, I got out of a toxic relationship recently. We were already planning our traditional wedding, and I was two months pregnant. He literally ab#sed me mentally, emotionally, verbally, and physically. I lost the baby, got a job, and ended things with him. My male senior colleague and I became close all of a sudden. I felt super comfortable telling him my story. He’s married with kids, and he also confided in me about his unhappy marriage and frustrations at home. Some months into the job, we’ve become super close. The thing that baffles me is the way he treats me. All my past relationships have been shitty. Sometimes, I wonder why it has to be someone who’s already married that would be so intentional about me.
He confessed to being in love with me, and he’s happy being with me. He literally shows me off to his friends and some family members. He gets jealous when I talk to other guys and becomes restless whenever we have misunderstandings. We keep seeing each other in our dreams all the time. I’m gradually developing deep feelings for him, but I’m trying not to because it’s pointless. I know married men will not leave their wives for another girl. I’ve always been the girl who detested the idea of being with a married man, but look at me now! I’m so confused. I don’t know if I should give him space before it gets out of hand. I don’t want to go in too deep and get heartbroken eventually. I’m almost 30. I shouldn’t be doing this! Please, advice.
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