I am a student and in my final year. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for the past two years and I love him deeply. Something happened between us last year concerning one guy. I cleared the guy’s chat on my phone, so he was surprised that out of everyone’s chats on my list, why was it that particular one I deleted? He asked me, I told him there’s nothing between us. He saved the guy’s number from my phone and called him to ask what’s going on between us. The guy told him nothing. The guy texted me on Snap and told me about it, that my boyfriend called him, but he just told him that there’s nothing between us so he won’t ruin our relationship. My boyfriend saw the chat and showed me as evidence. I confessed to him that what happened between us was just once. We only smooched each other. We didn’t have sex and that was it. But we still talk. He told me to come to his house again. That was the reason why I deleted the message—because I was trying to save my relationship. I apologized to him and we continued our love life.
I went to his place recently but it was really sad because he checked my transaction history and saw where the guy sent me money for goods I sold for him and he even referred me to his friends. He was angry that why didn’t I tell him? I’ve blocked and deleted every conversation that has to do with the guy. My boyfriend is not talking to me anymore. He’s heartbroken and so am I. I feel we can still make things work between us and breaking up is not the best option. Make una help me beg my boyfriend abeg.
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