Omo I’m just confused. I really don’t know where to start. I broke up with my ex last year, and earlier this year I started dating someone else, and it all started very smoothly and suddenly. The only problem now is that this my boyfriend is way older than me. I am barely 24 years and he’s 40, and I have a bad feeling this relationship won’t work, ‘cause he’s Yoruba and I’m Igbo, and my parents don’t like Yoruba people. Also, my friend told me she had a dream that this my current boyfriend is not my future husband. After I had this conversation with my friend, she told me I should be careful. My feelings for him have dropped. I don’t think I still have any strong feelings for him now. Anybody I show his pictures always ends up asking me, “Are you sure he’s not married?” And I’m still a virgin. I don’t want a situation whereby I will have sex with him now and it will not work out. I’m just scared. He’s a very good man—God-fearing, kind, and a very supportive person—but I still have doubts for him, although I haven’t seen any reason to doubt him. I feel if I lose him, I have lost a very good man. But I don’t want to waste his time, ‘cause he’s already talking about marriage and I’m not ready. I don’t even have a job yet. I’m just confused. Please, I will be in the comments.
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