I’m at a stage in my life where I am so confused. Everyone is clamoring to bring home a husband. To start with, I am a 25-year-old lady, Muslim, and a Lagos State civil servant. I used to have a very serious relationship with my best friend of 11 years. We did an introduction, but my family didn’t want him because he is a Christian and from a tribe they disapprove of. My mum’s fear was because of the language barrier and more. Things ended when I couldn’t get their approval. Fast forward to this moment, different suitors: one in the United Kingdom talking about marriage, another in Canada talking about marriage, and another in Lagos talking about marriage. The problem with the ones in the diaspora is that they are yet to find their feet, but the one in Lagos is a family friend, actually 40 years old but self-sufficient. I am confused because I don’t know who to go for. The one in Canada said he would help process my traveling documents, but I’m not a big fan of this relocation thing. I’m as confused as the word confused. I don’t even know what I want.
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